One of my high school teachers told us, "The most beautiful hands on earth are those of a mother's hands." She explained that a mother's hands had roughened for all the house chores she'd done. Despite the roughness of her hands, they are still beautiful, and always will. I had always remembered those words, and I wanted to have those set of hands.
When I was in school, my friends would always tell me how smooth my hands were. I graduated and started working. One of my colleagues was poor. We were not rich, but I lived a much more comfortable life than she did. However, my colleague thought that I was very rich and spoiled. She would always insultingly tell other colleagues how comfortable my life was and how princess-like I was. It bothered me. I could do some house chores such as cleaning, fixing my bed, and washing my own underwear. Although my parents wanted to spoil me, I didn't think I was a "princess." At that point, I made up my mind to wash all my clothes. My parents would always use our washing machine to wash our clothes. However, our washing machine was old and malfunctioning, and I wanted to save energy, so I hand wash all of my clothes instead.
Months later, I had quit my job and had worked somewhere else. I washed my own clothes once a week. I felt better for being more responsible and independent. However, my hands had roughened. I would occasionally have those ugly blisters, and my hands would hurt. Everyone that I tried to hold hands with would get surprised with my very rough hands. I attended a wedding reception one time, and when we were about to leave, my parents shook hands with the groom’s parents. I hid my hand behind my back. I was so conscious of my hands.
I did wear gloves when I was doing the laundry, but I didn’t wear them when I was washing my underwear. My hands hurt, so I decided to wear gloves every time I did other house chores. Some weeks later, my blisters started to disappear. I had religiously worn gloves whenever I did the laundry, no matter how tiny the clothing was. Now, my hands are smooth again! I realized one thing: my hands can work as hard as those of a mother’s, but they can still be as soft as a princess’. The little girl now has a perfect set of hands!
Cute drawing. I wish I could hold your avatar's hands lol.
ReplyDeleteLOL. Why hold the avatar's hands if you could hold mine? JK
ReplyDeleteHi cheerfulnuts,
ReplyDeleteSome persons also thought that my twin and I were spoilt!:) There was a time when persons would always comment that Janine and I had such soft hands as then we were not doing that much at home. However I have been as busy as a bee for some years now. I have very sensitive skin so at times soap powder etc. affect my hands. By the way, do you draw the cute drawings that accompany your posts? Oh, how I wish I could draw. I can't believe I did Art in high school. As you can well imagine it was for a short while and I was no good at it!LOL
Judy,
ReplyDeleteWow really? I guess moms love differently. Some moms require their kids to do house chores. They want their kids to be independent at an early age. My mom, on the other hand, doesn't see the need to require me to do house chores. She wanted me to focus in my studies instead. Most people believe that girls should do house work. But not my mom. She wants me to be married to someone who will equally spoil me. LOL. I'm not sure if she is right. But I do want to have a husband who will spoil me. Nevertheless, I want to be the best person that I can be. And by doing house chores, I feel like a better person.
btw, yes, I drew all the pictures of the girl with a weird hairstyle. =P
ReplyDeleteYou are quite an artist cheerfulnuts! Great!
ReplyDeleteThank you Judy! Everyone can be an artist.=P I think my drawings are very silly, but they fit perfectly on my cheerful blog.:)
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